Sticking around

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When you’re part of the leadership of a church or ministry, holidays often become the year’s “highlights.” This surge in attendance, activities, and anticipation is particularly evident during Christmas and Easter, when many people visit the church. While it’s wonderful and encouraging, it can distort your perception of reality.

Perhaps I’m sharing my own experience, but here’s what happens: Many people are genuinely interested, excited, and visibly thrilled to be present at these special and significant events. And every time I start to think, “So this truly represents the people who are committed to what we’re doing,” the next week arrives. Maybe a few people stayed, but generally, things return to normal.

Faithfulness is one of the most overlooked indicators of spiritual maturity in today’s church culture. In many ways, we’ve come to equate presence with devotion. However, God has never been primarily impressed with attendance. He seeks something deeper. Our hearts, obedience, and consistent following of Him, even when no one is watching.

Throughout the Bible, a recurring theme emerges: outward participation without inward devotion grieves the heart of God. The people of Israel were faithful in bringing sacrifices, yet their hearts were distant. This same tension exists today. A person can be present in the building but absent in their heart and attitude.

Faithfulness may not be flashy, but it holds immense power. It’s the unwavering, daily “yes” to God that shapes our lives. Jesus emphasized this when He said that those who demonstrate faithfulness in small matters will be entrusted with greater responsibilities.

While attendance is undoubtedly important, it’s not the sole component of our spiritual journey. I used to only attend holiday services, but I didn’t “stick around.” But witnessing the people’s love there eventually had an impact on me. Ultimately, God is not concerned with how often we show up; He is shaping our character and destiny. Because long after our attendance is forgotten, faithfulness is what remains.

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