I just received a text from a great friend. He’s taking a few days to flyfish in Wyoming. I had asked him to send some pictures, and he attached several to the text. One of the pictures showed him standing in front of a table FILLED with freshly caught trout. I couldn’t help but feel just a little bit of jealousy, thinking to myself, “I wish I could have been there.”
Do you find it easier to empathize with people going through tough times or rejoicing with people when they are experiencing a warm embrace of God’s blessings? For me, it’s the former. You? When we walk with people in the midst of dark times, it’s easier to be a hero to someone. You offer a shoulder to lean on, a word of encouragement, a helpful portion of Scripture, or sit with them with your silent presence, saying, “I’m here for you.” But when a friend gets a promotion, a new car, a new house, or a great fishing opportunity, you might be tempted to feel “left out,” “overlooked,” “jealous or envious.”
This is a classic example of the human condition that is common to everyone. It really falls into the category of sin that separates us from friends and ultimately from God. Romans 12:15 says, “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” It’s not a suggestion, it’s an imperative. This section of the book of Romans basically instructs us “how to get along with people.” It’s love in action. For me, instead of being jealous, I’m looking forward to a fish fry with my friend.